First Steps Forward

Counselling, coaching and mentoring for adults and young people aged 11 to 18.

Counselling and coaching funded sessions, via schools, colleges and social services.

Clinical supervision for trainee and established counsellors.

Advisory Teacher and Autism Training Provider, specialising in Autism, ADHD and neurodiversity.

Face to face in Surrey and online across the UK

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Adults and young people

Counselling and coaching for adults and young people aged 11 to 18

Surrey and online

Face to face in a garden office in Surrey, or online anywhere in the UK

£70 per session

50 minute sessions, with concessions available

Qualified and accredited

Member of the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (MNCPS)

Who is First Steps Forward?

A single person practice run by Dave, offering counselling, coaching, mentoring and specialist Autism and neurodiversity support.

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Person-centred, integrative counselling and coaching

Dave is a person-centred integrative counsellor. You guide where each session goes. He is not there to give you answers, but to help you find your own, empowering you to use those skills in other challenging times in your life.

It is about forming a positive therapeutic relationship, as a critical friend: challenging where appropriate, but always supportive.

Dave is a coach, counsellor, therapist, teacher and clinical supervisor, accredited to deliver coaching and counselling to adults and to young people aged 11 to 18. Using both coaching and counselling gives a richer and more diverse way to explore and develop the support that works for you.

He has specialised in Special Educational Needs, Learning Disabilities, Autism and ADHD, delivers training to professionals and parents, and advises schools and colleges.

Dave supports equality and diversity, recognising the uniqueness of women and of those who identify as Trans.

Specialist support for Autism, ADHD and neurodivergence

Dave puts clients at the centre of the process and will go the extra mile to make sure they feel empowered and in charge.

Adults, young people and families come to him through private enquiries, other counsellors, CAMHS and the National Autistic Society, seeking support, advice and understanding about Autism Spectrum Conditions, ADHD and Neurodivergence. Many have felt let down and unsupported by the system.

Many say other therapists and professionals claim to understand this area, but few have Dave’s depth of experience.

His expertise comes from personal lived experience, teaching, parenting and foster parenting, and working for the National Autistic Society. He also holds a Master’s degree in Education (Autism) and Postgraduate qualifications in Special Educational Needs and Psychological and Learning Disabilities.

Balanced stones at sunset
Hands held together in support

A calm garden office in Surrey, or online

Dave is based in Surrey and delivers face-to-face and online sessions from his office shed, in the garden at the rear of the house. It is a warm, confidential and safe space to let it all go, surrounded by trees and wildlife such as deer, foxes and a variety of bird life.

Online sessions mean Dave can deliver counselling to anyone in the UK.

Private clients come to Dave through recommendations from previous clients, Counselling Directory, the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society Directory, the NAS directory, and West Sussex and Surrey Council local offers, as well as from across the UK.

He also takes work from a national company that triages and matches clients with specialist counsellors, so he supports a diverse and eclectic mix of needs.

Dave has worked through a local charity supporting people bereaved by the suicide of family or friends, and counsels adults and young people who feel suicidal.

His integrative coaching and counselling approach is uniquely tailored to your needs.

What First Steps Forward Delivers

Counselling, Coaching and Mentoring

There are times when we all need a facilitator to support and encourage us, when day to day life has become too much to deal with alone. Dave will put you at the centre of the process, so you feel valued and supported, responding to your needs as they change.

It is about guiding you to find your own path, knowing there is someone beside you on the journey for as long as you need them. Dave is non-judgemental, open and honest: a critical friend, guiding you to self-healing.

Counselling and coaching

Dave can move between counselling and coaching in sessions where appropriate, as both have their merits. Counselling may focus on the experiences that brought you to where you are. Coaching looks at the present and how the future may be achieved, through personal goal setting, outcomes and self-driven motivation: tangible steps towards a better life.

Mentoring

Mentoring is a supportive way for clients, especially those with an additional need, to focus ideas, look for alternatives and rehearse ways to move forward.

Barriers and concerns Dave supports

The list ranges from abuse and addictions to sexual assault and trauma, as well as Autism Spectrum Condition, ADHD and neurodiversity generally.

Abuse

  • Abuse
  • Domestic abuse
  • Emotional abuse
  • Physical abuse

Loss

  • Infant and baby loss
  • Rainbow babies (pregnancy after loss)

Mental health

  • Anxiety and social anxiety
  • Depression
  • Stress
  • Anger
  • PTSD symptoms
  • Trauma
  • Self-harm
  • Suicidal thoughts
  • Low self-confidence and low self-esteem
  • Addictions

Relationships and family

  • Affairs and betrayal
  • Family issues
  • Healthy relationships
  • Passive aggressive behaviour
  • Bullying
  • Carer support

Identity

  • Sexuality
  • Transitioning

Neurodiversity and learning

  • Autistic Spectrum Condition/Asperger’s
  • ADHD
  • Neurodiversity
  • Learning difficulties and SEND

and many more. If you are not sure, please ask.

Fees

Costs for counselling, mentoring and coaching are agreed at the initial meeting, and a counselling contract is signed.

Counselling and supervision

Counselling, coaching or mentoringPrivate client session, 50 minutes
£70
Trainee counsellor and counsellor supervision90 minutes
£75

Training, mentoring and funded sessions

Corporate training and presentationsFirst 2 hours, then £150 per hour. Travel costs included depending on location.
£400
Education and INSET trainingPer 2 hours. Half or full days negotiable. Travel costs included depending on location.
£400
Coaching funded sessionsChildren or adults, for example via schools, colleges or social services. Per 50 minutes, hourly rates available. Travel time and mileage included.
£80

Concessions are available for certain benefits, and for blue light services, public services, armed forces, veterans and NHS, at the counsellor’s discretion. Please do not be offended if proof is requested. If you are not sure, feel free to ask rather than go without the support you need.

Qualifications and Memberships

BSc (Hons), BA (Hons) in Counselling
Postgraduate Certificate in Education (PCET) QTLS
Postgraduate Diploma in Education (SEN)
Postgraduate Diploma in Psychology and Learning Disabilities
Postgraduate Certificate in Clinical Supervision
Master’s degree in Education (Autism)
Master’s degree in Understanding Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault
Member of the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (MNCPS)

Get in touch

Please contact me with any questions, or to make an initial appointment.

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